A long beautiful quotation from Anna Karenina has its application to many an unhappy young man out there.
“Then, for the first time, realizing that for every man, and he himself too, there was nothing ahead but suffering, death, eternal oblivion, he had decided that to live under such conditions was impossible — he must either find an explanation to the problem of existence which would make life seem something other than the cruel irony of all malevolent spirit, or he must shoot itself.
“But he had done neither the one nor the other: he had gone on living, thinking and feeling, and even at that very time married, had experienced many joys and been happy whenever he was not pondering on the meaning of his life.
“What did that show? It showed that he had been living rightly, but thinking wrongly.
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