Wednesday August 17, 2016
Stillness, balance
3:35 a.m. Talking with Nancy last night, it seemed clear that the lesson she took away from last session isn’t the one I took. No, that isn’t quite what I mean. I mean, she as an example showed how different people hear different things in the same words than I hear as I’m writing them, or as I’m sending them later. Words don’t mean the same thing to different people – and I’m not talking about vocabulary here, or semantics, but meaning, communication.
That is an advantage as well as a disadvantage, as usual. Slippage is opportunity, not just inefficiency. Ambiguity is a door we can use to suggest things, and of course everybody is going to need different suggestions because no two people begin from the same places. The argument that convinces one person of free will strikes another as proof of interference, and a third of overall purpose, and a fourth of general confusion.
And that merely reinforces my idea that logic and chains of thought are more matters of convenience than proofs of anything [I wrote “everything”] – and even as I write that, I can feel myself demonstrating your point.
If, in exploring these things, you bear in mind slippage as a fact of life, and internal course-correction as another, you’ll breathe easier. It isn’t up to anybody’s feats of logic or exposition; all you can do and all you – anybody – need do is your best. That’ll be enough.