Another YouTube interview — this one 13 mintues.
Ken Korczak review of “Afterlife Conversations with Ken Kesey (and others)”
Ken Korczak writes provocative, thought-inspiring reviews. He has been very kind to my own work in the past, and refers to it here, in passing, as well at Tom Campbell’s.
“William Bedivere” is a friend, writing under a pseudonym. He shared “Afterlife Conversations with Ken Kesey (and others)” with me when It first came out, and I found it extremely interesting, as I think you will too.
Reminder
“If you realized that the nurtured spiritual part of yourself would accompany you on your eternal journey and that everything that you have labored so hard to accumulate would vanish the instant you depart this world, would it alter your daily agenda?” – Walter Cooper
Wake up, people
“Wake up, people!”
I see it a lot on Facebook postings and comments, often by friends of mine.
A description of a social problem, an ascription to overt or hidden causes, an implication that it’s almost people’s own fault for being deceived. Then, “Wake up, people!”
I recognize people’s good intentions here; they want others to become aware of what they have learned (they assuming of course that what they have learned is accurate, but let’s take that for granted, for the sake of the argument). The implication is that nothing can be done until the people (or perhaps a certain number of people) “wake up.” And of course we live in the world; its affairs concern us.
However, put this together with Carl Jung’s wise and apt quotation: “He who looks outward dreams; he who looks inward awakes.” That suggests that our best means of awakening is not concentration on external affairs but on learning who and what we ourselves are.
To those fixated on “external” problems, this will seem to be merely escapism. But such is the nature of dreams. Wake up, people. 🙂
Specifics versus principles
As I watch the political and ideological arguments swirling around us, I really do try to understand why people argue past each other, even when I am one of those arguing. Lack of knowledge of logical fallacies is one reason. Anger is another. But in the middle of the night (I seem to do my best thinking when I’m not here!) I awoke with another. Often one person is arguing from specifics and the other is arguing from general principles.
The example that came to mind was health insurance.
The *principle* is – why should we as individuals have to buy into such a system? Why should we be compelled to have health insurance for the sake of society in general? People should stand on their own feet and not rely on the government all the time. I agree with that principle.
But the *specific* is that Bob Friedman, after my recent hospital stay, said he hoped I had health insurance beyond Medicare, as a big enough hospital bill could destroy me.
Well, I don’t. I resent the cost of insurance, and I think as a nation we are over-insured. When I was an employer, I was always staggered at the cost to the company of paying to provide health insurance for our employees (including ourselves). But, it’s true what Bob pointed out. After a long lifetime of frugal living and productive work, I have savings and investments that should be sufficient, with the help of Social Security, to see me out. But one illness, or a series of illnesses, or some sufficiently great medical emergency could bankrupt me.
It doesn’t even make sense economically, because as soon as I was bankrupt, presumably I would be a charge on the taxpayers as a welfare client.
So there you are, and you can’t resolve the conflict by logic, nor even by insulting all the people on the other side of the issue. If you could, we could resolve all our political issues in battle by facebook, and eliminate the need for insulting each other in election campaigns.
Your contribution
You know how people are always saying they’d like to make a better world?
How about at least not helping make a worse one?
Speaking energetically, what do you suppose hatred can produce but more hatred? And hatred is good for us as individuals, or as a culture — how?
Next time you are tempted to hate Obama, or the Koch brothers, or (fill in your own blanks), ask yourself, is this what I really want to contribute, energetically? Is this going to look really stellar on my past-life review?
Hating America
[I put this on Facebook first, reversing the usual procedure.]
Listening to the emotion behind people’s rhetoric, rather than the specific words, I have been trying to figure out why so many Facebook posts are so negative, so angry, so certain.
Sure, politics and ideology are often matters of strong opinion. But these days, they are reaching the point of hysteria. I have been wondering why.
Here’s a tentative conclusion: Everybody on the left and right (and even a few people at the center) shares one characteristic. They hate America.
Oh, they don’t think so. They love THEIR IDEA of the America that OUGHT TO exist. But the America that actually exists, which is shot through with flaws, they hate. And it’s a short step from hating imperfection to hating those you see as being responsible for that imperfection. Add fear of losing your imagined love permanently, and you have a recipe for just what we’re seeing.
I was going to list particulars, but perhaps it’s better for everybody to make their own lists.
An old saying has it that “the best is the enemy of the good,” DeMarco’s corollary (made up just this minute) states that an idealized image held too closely leads to hatred of reality, which is always imperfect.
And that, in turn, leads to an uncomfortable question for us all: How much am I letting my love for an idealized America turn into hatred of the America that actually exists? And what can come from hatred but more hatred?
Carl Jung said that condemnation always isolates, and only acceptance heals. Perhaps it is time we stop blaming each other for the fact that America isn’t what it should be, and start holding and spreading our vision of what it yet could be.
[I added a follow-up]
Do you hate America?
I know you don’t *think* you do, but —
Can you love America while hating its people?
Can you love its people if you only love *some* of its people?
Can you love America if you hate those Americans who hold ideas you hate?
So, do you love the *real* America — the one that exists, warts and all — or only the edited version you wish did exist?