Tides and choices

Wednesday, July 3, 2024

5:40 a.m. All right, let’s go. How is it that I can want to work and at the same time absolutely not want to work? Conflict of strands, sure, but does that really explain anything? After discussing this problem yesterday in two different small ILC groups, something seems to have freed up, and I don’t understand why that should be either, though I suppose it may be that talking about it brought unconscious factors closer to consciousness. In any case, your advice? Commentary? Assistance?

We gave you the answer in a nutshell in yesterday’s drumming. Quote that.

[“What is the best thig we could be doing now? What obstacles are in the way?”

[The hardest thing to remember can be that All Is Well while you are experiencing things you don’t like. Live in trust but live what you experience, not judging prematurely; not judging at all, if you can do that.

[Everything in life is tides and choices. You are responsible only for the choices; life provides the tides. Emotions are the laminal layer between them, as we have said.

[In short, trust and relax and become ever more aware of your motivations and processes. All not only will be well, all always was and always is well.

[That’s all you really need, trust.]

Tides and choices, you see. And the longer you ponder this, the clearer the situation will become. You are all balanced between outer forces that seem to come at you regardless, and inner forces that can and must respond (if only by default) to the challenge and opportunity of each new moment. Conceptually it isn’t difficult, nor complicated.

But the living-out of the situation is!

It can be. And what have we been doing, all these years, but giving you strategies and tips and conceptualizations designed to help you along the way? Living in faith, believing that All Is Well, identifying yourself as a 3D/non-3D being, reassuring you that you are never alone despite appearances – it is all to remind you that there is never reason to despair, and at the same time there is always work to do, opportunities and challenges to be met.

What is “life more abundantly” if it is not greater opportunity to live? What is higher or deeper consciousness if it is not awareness that goes ever deeper than appearances? What is reassurance that you are here to choose, if not an affirmation that your life matters, that no life can be inconsequential to itself? What is our perpetual reminder that you never have the data to properly judge tour own life, let alone that of others, if it does not tie back to the theme of living in faith that all is well?

Or, you can prefer to believe that things are as they seem, even though you know better. You can believe that you are a “useless passion,” with Sartre – but you know better! Even pretending that you have no meaningful choice is of course a choice. So why not choose what is hopeful and life-affirming, rather than what leads you to despair and ennui? And ennui, remember, is one of the seven deadly errors.

Your energy is still low; there is no need to prolong this session  which still has to be typed into the computer. We have said what can be said at the moment.

I expected more and expected a full session, but this helps. Thanks as always.

 

31. Structuring the world

Monday, May 27, 2024

5 a.m. Gentlemen?

You will see from your effort just now to help your friend that this material has put everything into question, just as it did for Rita. Describe it when you transcribe this, so that people will have the context.

I woke up from a dream in which I was telephoned (by a hospital, I think) and urgently told to bring my neighbor Don there. (He had died Wednesday morning) They gave me an address which I thought was close but which turned out to be at the other end of the state. When I knocked at his bedroom door, he was surprised, not ready, and I think that’s where the dream ended and I woke up. So I thought, maybe this was a call for a retrieval. But when I came back a few minutes later, I still didn’t know. I think I did contact him, but rather than go through the usual drill, I told him if he wanted to stay around for a while, fine, but when he is ready to move, he should consult his instincts (rather than his reasoning) on how to go home. I don’t know why I was moved to put it just that way, but it seemed appropriate.

It cannot be expected that a new view will revolutionize any one neat division of your life and not all. How could it? What we are looking at here is a revolution of your psychic interpretational structure – we know this term doesn’t mean anything to you yet – and not merely a rearrangement of data, nor even a rearrangement of how past and present and future data is to be interpreted.

“Psychic interpretational structure.” You’re right, it seems to have meaning, but I don’t know what it will prove to be.

Nor will you understand it from any one session. It will reveal its meaning in layers, which of course means, over time. Just as Jung’s terms took time to percolate to the outside world, just as any trade has its specific argot, so any new way of seeing things will generate a new vocabulary perforce, because you cannot well describe a new thing using only old vocabulary. In fact, not only vocabulary but sometimes grammar and other framework need to be tortured into a new ability to express what had been inexpressible for lack of supporting context.

You have always gone out of your way, it seems to me – I know I have, on this end – to avoid generating specialized vocabulary beyond the bare necessity. We have been keeping it simple, and that has served.

Yes, and serves still. The ones who will apply this new way of seeing to their respective specialties will generate specialized vocabularies as the developing situation requires. Our job was to keep it simple stupid. But OTOH you don’t stay at the beginner’s level forever. Little by little, things more complicated, more nuanced, less obviously connected, need expression. It’s natural.

So what do we mean in referring to a psychic interpretational structure?

It sounds like “the mental habits that structure the world to us.”

Not a bad place to start. Very well, let’s think together. How do your habits structure the world you perceive?

It’s obvious enough. In fact, you have told us more than once. We have filters that allow certain input into consciousness and not other input. This, on a pre-conscious level, obviously, means we only see as much as we have previously determined to see.

You might better say, you see only as much as predetermined limits allow you to see. But who and what set these limits? We don’t mean, Name the person responsible. We mean, What are the factors involved? How does it happen that you can think this but not that, can perceive this but not that, can credit this but not that idea?

Can’t you just spell it out?

We could (and will) set out some hints, but it is always better if you work at it, construct your own bridges.

I get:

  • Our heredity via strands
  • Astrological limitations on our psyche
  • Societal shared beliefs unconsciously accepted.

I imagine there are more, but these come to mind. And, I’m not sure how any of them operate to create a structure in the psyche. I know little about psychology and nothing about the physiology of consciousness.

This is a good starting-place – and, don’t neglect to ponder how you want about answering our question.

Oh, as usual I just dredged. I held the question in mind and waited for something to surface. I didn’t construct chains of logic, if that is what you mean. I don’t do that very well.

Au contraire, you do it very well, but you do not do it at the beginning. First you let things surface, then you examine them to see how they may make sense. This is one way to think, and it works well for those fishing in the dawn or in the twilight. Those who fish at midday use other techniques better suited to those conditions.

Nor is this a detour. The question of how one thinks relates closely to the question of how one does or does not admit date into consideration.

I see that. The midday thinker wants (needs?) things plain and simple, well-defined. The half-light thinker is drawn to interpreting half-seen, indeterminate, ambiguous possibilities.

And midday thinking, as you call it, is impatient of half-light data. Half-light thinkers are bored with midday data that is interpreted in an inadmissibly flat take-it-or-leave-it way.

Could the human race, or any part of it, do well by not employing both strategies, or is it better served by having both at its disposal? And what more convenient than to have the two functions unevenly distributed among individuals, so that the usual competition/cooperation may manifest?

I can already see that I will title this conversation. “Midday and half-light thinkers,” or perhaps “thinking.” It is a clearer view than I have had of a division that is surely obvious to everyone.

Maybe not. Wait till the session is over, and look back at it, as usual. Perhaps the center of gravity will be elsewhere.

So your initial description of what factors set the limits of what you perceive included three factors. But even by now, only a few moments later, further possibilities will have occurred to you while you concentrated on this discussion. (Physical heredity, for instance.) How can this happen? How is it that your minds can work on more than one level?

I gather that this “working on more than one level” is distributed quite unevenly. Einstein in his old age lamented that he was no longer able to think on more than three or four levels at a time – dumbfounding his interlocutor, who drily wrote that he himself had no experiences of such diminishment, never having been able to think on more than one level at a time.

Yes, now write your suspicions.

Well, as I was writing that, I thought, probably we do think on many levels, but aren’t aware of it, unlike Einstein, who was. I mean by that, maybe Einstein was different more in his awareness of various levels of thinking, and not merely in the exceptional ability he also possessed.

Everybody who reads this (or read anything) has the experience of ideas popping up as they read. Mostly they ignore them. Sometimes they get diverted by them and need to return their attention after proceeding down the garden path. Some are able to entertain both at the same time, and some are able to entertain more than two, some more easily than others.

It certainly happens to me, here. I would be getting something from you, and getting a thought reacting to it perhaps, or anticipating it, and having a side-trail open up as something suggests something else, non-logically, but not at random, and hearing my next question or statement well up. And all the while, sometimes hesitating between expressing your thought by this word or that one. It’s really quite intricate as you look at it, but it’s mostly automatic.

One prime use of meditation is to break the trance that persuades you that your moment-to-moment conscious mind is linear and logical.

Next time we should start by looking at your proposed factors in setting your mental limits:

  • Strand heredity;
  • Astrological limitations;
  • Social understandings.

Are you still sure you want to call this “Midday and half-light thinking”?

I’ll need to look at it. Our thanks for all this, as always.

 

20. Extension and growth

Thursday, May 16, 2024

4:05 a.m. Gentlemen, your choice. You said yesterday you wanted to discuss giving freely vs. charging for information we get for free. But I counted three other things you began and have not finished:

  • Creating something permanent
  • The universe “making up its mind”
  • Life’s meaning

What’s your pleasure?

We haven’t lost track. That said, it’s good for you to keep track as well. It is a complex argument to set forth, and we’re easily side-tracked. However, it all evens out.

What we want to say about freely giving isn’t actually an interruption. It proceeds from our motivation of expansion through giving. You understand, we’re talking here about life more abundantly, not the acquisition of things or of talents or of accomplishments or of the love of others.

I am seeing the distinction ever more clearly as a distinction between self-definitions.

Very good. Yes. Life more abundantly means, expansion of who and what you experience yourself to be. It does not mean a smoother track of the life and the self-definition you have already.

Discussion of the pleasant helpful exchange with the man who was concerned for a stranger led to this. But so do so many things we have discussed over the years. Our sketching of emotion as the boundary between the known part of you (the ego-self) and the not-yet-grown-into parts (the unconscious, according to Jung, which we would say is what you are unconscious of; your unknown functioning that is also potential). The redefinition of 3D humans as communities of strands rather than as the units they seem.

Your friend John Nelson had his character in the novel say (in effect), “It’s always the same thing. They come to me to learn how to change without changing.” We would say, yes, that is the problem, seen one way. Seen another way, it is more that the idea of having to change is the problem. You don’t need to change what you are (you couldn’t anyway); you need to change which parts of yourself express, which makes it look like you changed, but in fact what changes is expression. If your life has been the living-out of ten things, and then becomes the living-out of those ten plus two more that you had previously not suspected you also were, will your expression to the 3D world not change? Yet you will still be what you were, only more so.

I think that could be said more simply.

It is usually easier to restate concisely than to feel your way into an initial expression. Feel free.

I get that you are meaning, we are always more than our idea of ourselves, and that the more selflessly we act, the more of ourselves we can come to know. I gather that this is because love, expansion, leads naturally to growth, while self-absorption merely reinforces the definition we begin with.

Stated a little too flatly, but more or less on track. It is in the nature of things that reaching out is the way to growth. Think of the children you once were.  Can you remember the outflowing energy, avidly interacting with the world? The state of expectation? The free enthusiasm? All that is consistent with a default state of growth. Children expect to grow. They have no other experience of life but growth. Although they are very aware of what they learn to do, the learning isn’t the center of their attention, it is the new wonder that each year brings.

“Except you be as little children, you can’t enter the kingdom of heaven.” Is that the meaning?

That is one meaning. Obviously a grown-up cannot return to a state of ignorance, but can return to a state of innocence. You can’t go back to not-knowing; you can go back to a default state of expectation.

Ah. “Life is good. All is well.”

Every child begins with that knowing. What child ever came into the world grumbling, or depressed, or lost, or jaded? It is true, a harsh life may soon warp them, but they didn’t start that way. And neither – o grownup human reading this – did you. And you can return to that earlier state.

It is a decision, as much as anything.

Haven’t we been advising you, from the very beginning with Rita so many years ago? “All is well. All is always well.” Now see it in this new context.

Let me connect a couple of dots. I’m getting that the underlying key here is, “Life is good.” Not, “Life would be good if only,” nor “Life will be good as soon as,” but “Life is good,” period. That feeling of affirmation – somebody called it the Everlasting Yes – is the key to our growth.

Not just to your growth (which implies a future state) but also to your functioning right here, right now.

Will you allow world affairs or politics or natural disasters or tax difficulties or physical problems or relationship issues or mental stagnation – or anything – to persuade you that life is anything but good? That all is anything but well? To the extent that you allow that feeling in, you hamper your own natural flowering.

And our reaching out to others is a way to preserve that knowing?

You aren’t wrong, but we offer a caution here: Be careful not to devolve into doing good for someone in order to get something, even merit. Jesus said the person who does good and gets praised for it has had his reward. One thing he meant by that little parable is that there is a big difference for you in giving for its own sake and giving in hope of some return. The latter is still good, but it isn’t the same order of thing as the former.

Your wellbeing is in growth, always. But what does that mean?

That no matter what happens to us, we can use it.

Superficially, yes. Looked at more closely,

  • Nothing “happens” to anyone. Life is not chance, no matter how it seems.
  • Therefore by definition nothing “happens” by accident. You know this with one part of your mind, but connect it to this:
  • Growth has patterns, possibilities. Therefore, different sequences of events (inner and outer) are part of different patterns.
  • Therefore – and how many times have we said it – it is up to you to choose what you want to be, what you want to grow into.
  • By 3D logic, this is a future-oriented process. But really, it is about the present, of course. Your choice is now, always. When else could it be? It will affect present, future, and past, though that may seem logically impossible. Choosing is how you create your own reality.
  • “Choosing your own reality” may be restated, “Choosing your own growth path,” or “Choosing your own ‘external’ influences as you go along.”

If you will go through the Gospels reading what Jesus said and interpreting it by way of these thoughts, you will see that you were given a trustworthy and subtle guide to growth in awareness. He did not explain any of it in these words: How could he have done so? Who could have followed? It would have been only words, and inexplicable words at that. But you have the way to read him that the very apostles did not have. Use it. Do for him what you did for the Gospel of Thomas or for Bronson Alcott. Instead of criticizing (as many do), seek for the inner thought, and use it.

Enough for the moment.

Yes, thank you. Till next time.

 

Writing, not typing

I don’t do the science of it. All I can tell you is my own experience. For a quarter of a century I have noticed the difference between talking to the guys via handwriting and via typing. Typing is vastly faster and involves less effort. But writing it out first seems to improve the depth of the message.  Maybe this is a case of “you get only as much as you pay for,” I don’t know.

https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2024/05/11/1250529661/handwriting-cursive-typing-schools-learning-brain

 

11. Suspended in freedom

Tuesday, May 7, 2024

2:45 a.m. Aspirations and intent? Or, perhaps, how to know intent?

You like to think of yourselves as good. You aren’t good. You sometimes think of yourselves as evil. You aren’t evil. Those are conditions – extremes, you might say, or poles. But you don’t live at a pole. You live suspended between them.

Your entire life is suspended between all possible polarities, and, as Swedenborg saw, you are suspended in a condition of freedom, that you may choose. But the subject of good and evil, of choice and necessity, of cause and effect, has been clouded for people by their assumption that life in 3D is what it seems to be. It isn’t.

We can only sketch suggestions toward the truth, because the truth is too complicated to be able to be spelled out, but use your intuition – your own truth-seeking judgment – and what we can say should be enough to get you to what can’t be said in sequential exposition.

Because you are interconnected directly to so many strands, and they to their strands, and so forth, your decisions affect them, and theirs you. Ultimately this means that all humans are one thing in a state of dissociation, but, as we say, this is too complex to sketch. So let us confine yourself to a sketch of you and your strands, to show in little how it works in large.

Take the seven sins, or the seven virtues. These are itemizations of the tendencies that lead downward (away from self-awareness, self-control, self-direction, expansion toward all others) or upward (via active decisions on how to live, what to be). It doesn’t matter whether the individual knows of them by name; they manifest in life, as temptations or possibilities. Other cultures name them differently because they conceptualize them in different systems, but human life is human life, after all.

Well, you in your life are continually tempted up or down – but, throughout your life, so are those you are intimately connected with. You are they; they are you. Don’t let the necessities of language make you think of separation where there is really continuity. Do you think you can ever be isolated from what is your very core of being? “You are not alone” is a very hope-giving statement, but it has its down side, as everything does. That down side is that you are not alone mentally, spiritually – for good or bad. You are always one in a neighborhood.

Can you see how many features of everyday life this sheds light on? The passions that overwhelm you, the “out of character” impulses you sometimes give in to? The traits that are your besetting sins, that you repent of but cannot overcome? The bad in the best of you and the good in the worst of you? All this looks different when you see it as family contention, rather than individual quirks.

It isn’t just good or bad. It is any polarity you can think of. You are never the isolated being you may think yourself to be. You couldn’t be, it would be like a finger considering itself in isolation from the hand, let alone from the rest of the body.

But you are not a helpless pawn, either. You may think of yourselves as swimmers dealing with strong or weak currents. You may choose to go where the current is taking you, either passively floating or swimming with the current. Or you may choose to swim against the current, or at an angle to it. Your lone efforts will not determine the result for your strands ad infinitum, any more than whatever you do in the world will overcome all obstacles or inertia. But your efforts will determine what direction you move.

Again, we could wish that knowledge of theology were more widespread, because what is theology but the working out of life’s ground-rules from whatever assumptions one begins with. That is what you do, it is what we do, and it would allow you to get more sophisticated understandings by examining the explorations and conclusions of others, even though – or perhaps because – their beginning assumptions are so different from these.

Similarly, psychology. The science that studies the mind can report many a phenomenon that will shed new light on your experiences, once you translate the assumptions. Of course we recommend Carl Jung as closest for Westerners. William James, too. You will need to translate their concepts by accepting the result but postulating different causes. We assume that is clear.

I think so. I hear you saying, if someone is talking about dissociation of personality, say,  we can trust their observations but will profit b recasting the origin and continuance in the terms we recognize.  Not one isolated unit, but a connected unit that is really a community. That sort of thing.

Correct. Similarly with theology. You will disregard the logic that proceeds from assumptions we do not share, and will profit from connections that have been drawn over time by a combination of logic and intuition.

Of course this kind of cherry-picking has its hazards.

What does not? But it is a way to proceed.

I see that. Did you have more on this, or do you want to talk about how to determine our intent?

It is more a change of emphasis than of topic. It still comes to the question of your life among invisible but real influences.

Those who are conversant with astrology will recognize that the internal relations in people form different patterns. Some are concentrated, some scattered. Some are torn between competing impulses, some move from one to another as life proceeds.

Mary Jones and his seven (I think) underlying patterns: bundle, locomotive, basket and handle, etc., It has been a good while, but I get what you are saying. Of course he expressed these relationships considering the individual in isolation.

And, you see, you all will find yourselves translating knowledge in many fields. It isn’t that your predecessors were wrong, it is that you are proceeding from a new viewpoint which puts things in different perspective.

Our point here is that some people are born knowing what they are and what they want and what they want to do. We would say they are in the midst of forces that line up harmoniously.

Others start out confused, or let’s say torn, and never do get their feet on the ground, but are pulled from enthusiasm to enthusiasm, or perhaps from plight to plight, and never have any sense of control.

And, as usual, everyone else is in between these two extremes. You may have great sureness in one aspect of life and little or none in another. You may be sure now, then change and be sure of your different opinion. You may spend your life altering viewpoint and values without being disoriented or discouraged.

In whichever of the three conditions you find yourself, remember this: You always have access to your truth (which will lead you to what you want to do and be: that is, to your intent). However, neither you nor anyone else has access to The Truth in the sense of truth that can only be seen one way.

Your truth is your polestar – but it is only for you. Others may or may not come to the same place, but this won’t be because they share your truth; it is because their truth and yours coincide.

I had thought you intended to give us tips on how to discern our own intent, when it is not evident.

Rather, we call your attention to the fact that you often leave your intent unclarified. You don’t need any helpful hints on how to find your intent: Listen to your own non-3D component (which means, you realize, to your own mind) and it will give you your road map.

I keep getting the impulse to list the sins and virtues. Is that for next time?

You may and it won’t hurt anything, but next time we will probably look at your strands and how they change you, and vice versa, and why.

That should prove interesting. Okay, the virtues: Prudence, Temperance, Justice, Fortitude, Faith, Hope, Charity.

The sins: Lust, Envy, Gluttony, Covetousness, Anger, Price, and Sloth or Ennui. (My mnemonic LEG CAPS or LEG CAPE.)

I don’t know why I should list them, but that was the urge I had, from the time you mentioned them. Thank you for all this. Till next time.

 

10. Wide-ranging connection

Monday May 6, 2024

5:40 a.m. Stitching reality together?

That was probably a misleading way to put it. What we mean by it is that extensive and wide-ranging connections tend to coordinate the effects in one place of what occurs in another place, and of course the same with times. It isn’t as if ancient Egypt were something unconnected to your time, or either time to medieval England, etc.

You seem to be saying that what happens to the people of a given time affects the age itself.

This is language, causing difficulty by making an abstraction seem solid. The people are the age. Remember – though we have not said it here, we made it clear enough in other conversations – material reality is mind-stuff; it is not rocks in space the way it appears to 3D senses. In reality, the difference between a desk in a certain time-space and a person in that same time-space is mostly appearance. The desk is spun from thought no less than the person is. So the distinction that arises in your minds between “living people” and “inanimate objects” is mostly illusion.

I suppose this is why we can be mentally and emotionally affected by our physical surroundings. There is interaction between the human and the non-human, but at base they are the same, or anyway are close kin.

You see what happened just there? You got it, but then it seemed far-fetched, so you backed away from it. Yes, the same, not “close kin.” This stretches your accustomed way of thinking about yourself and the world (accustomed by life as interpreted through the senses), so the closer approximation seemed too abstract, theoretical, unlikely; you instinctively fell back on a less disruptive way of thinking about it.

That’s very interesting. I do see it.

But we don’t want to stray too far from our starting-place. Let’s begin again.

Each of you is composed of strands that may be considered to be individual lives, each of which is similarly composed of strands of other lives. Rather than the disconnected individuals you usually experience yourselves to be, you are actually branches of the human tree. This is less figurative than it sounds. You are not disconnected, and the things you connect to are not disconnected, so in what way could you be considered separate merely because you each have independence of motion, and have the ability within limits to choose your future development?

At the same time, hold in your minds the fact that the human-tree is itself not independent from its surroundings and we do not mean because you must breathe etc. It is not a merely physical connection – oxygen-breathers depending upon the air they breathe – but also a deeper connection, because the physical world is all one thing in the same way the metaphysical world is.

So you – anyone reading this – are an integral part of the human race, and thus an integral part of human existence on 3D Earth, — and this has implications worth pursuing.

  • You connect to all others. That means you affect each other, directly or less directly.
  • You extend through time (though you would likely say “across” time, as if it were a matter of spanning distance). Thus you affect each other in time as well as in space.
  • The mental world is the non-3D world of non-locality, fluidity of movement, relatively instant creation and re-creation, freedom from 3D constraints. And you in 3D bodies are also 3D minds. Hence, you play by two sets of rules, and can transcend either.
  • Your mental world tends to be heavily affected by what your 3D senses tell you, so you tend to invent rules for yourselves (thinking you are perceiving them) that narrow your focus and limit your possibilities.
  • Thus, you have the ability to grow into something superhuman; it is a matter of reconceptualizing what you are.

But with your senses reporting one set of rules of existence, and your intuitions reporting a different set, how you define yourself is less a matter of circumstance than of choice. The family and time you are born into will largely shape your sensory perceptions of the world.; your own composition (your strands) will react to that idea of life, sometimes agreeing with it, sometimes not. Thus you are in a position to choose. What do you want to believe about yourself? What do you want to believe the world is? How open are you to change, and to believe in change? How open are you to hope or despair, confidence or fear?

You could look at this two ways, and either way is somewhat true:

  1. All your non-3D connections – your strands immediately and, via those strands, all of humanity – act as a drag, as inertia, making it harder for you to become something different from what you experience yourself to be.
  2. Those same conditions act as support, holding you in their cradling arms, wishing you well, profiting from your advances and suffering from your losses.

As we say, it is your choice how to see it. Depending upon time and place and your own intent and ability, either condition is a better way to see it. But maybe three minutes later, the other looks more realistic.

It is always up to you.

Have you ever thought of life this way? If not, why not? Haven’t the world’s scriptures told you, you are all brothers and sisters? Didn’t Jesus quote scripture to say, “I tell you, you are gods”? Hasn’t the promise been given time after time, in many different ways? Haven’t the words of mystics reporting their own first-hand experiences told you all you need to know?

Once we get over thinking them special, which means, different.

Yes. That is a confusion, looking at result and jumping to the conclusion that the essence must have been different. People do that most particularly with the greatest success stories: Jesus, Gautama, etc. Well, it’s time to get over that. Once you know that what you experience follows from your intent, you have no ready-made excuse to settle for anything less than you desire.

Only, you don’t want to be making people feel guilty, or feel like failures.

No, of course not. But as you sometimes say, a good boot in the tail is sometimes helpful

Somebody said sometimes it helps and sometimes it just hurts.

We decline to be responsible for what people do or do not do with our words, once we have done our best to clarify our meaning. Our point remains:  You are not on your own, regardless what it looks like. You couldn’t be alone, by the nature of things.

There are further implications which perhaps are obvious, but which we state for clarity: What assistance you receive depends on what you seek. If you prefer a downward course, you will have plenty of connections that will be glad to lead you that way.

That isn’t the best was to put that, but to say it carefully will require some space. Perhaps we will resume there next time. But what we are trying to get across here is that if your aspirations are high or low, you can connect to others who will accompany you upward or downward. The key is your intent, and since your strands will include disagreements, you may feel torn. It is the common human condition, after all, to be tempted. (You can be tempted by good as well as by evil.) It is always your choice, your intent, but it isn’t always easy to know what your intent is. That’s another possible starting-place.

Until next time, then.

Some very interesting stitching-together of concepts going on here. Our thanks as always.

 

7. Mental and physical

Friday, May 3, 2024

4:30 a.m. The mental life connects; the physical life separates.

That isn’t quite the way to put it, though it is what we said. Phrased more carefully, it would say, the physical circumstances lead you through the experience of isolation, but your mental life, carefully observed, provides you the evidence of continual connection that otherwise might not be noticed, not indeed believed.

It may seem to be a paradox. As always, any paradox may be resolved by considering the elements comprising it from a higher or deeper level. Here, the paradox resolves easily. (In fact, many will not even see it as paradox, seeing the resolution instinctively.) It is mostly an example of separation of function. A matter of specialization, one might say.

Your mental world functions from (connects you to) the non-3D from which you emerged. It continuously provides you access to abilities and perspectives you could not achieve if you were confined mentally, as you are physically, to 3D conditions. This is why some people discover liberation in meditation or prayer or any discipline that frees them from 3D sequential thinking.

Your physical existence in a separate body lives by very different rules, in very different conditions. This is not poor design, nor the result of bad choices, nor punishment, nor accident. Your 3D life is designed to place you in 3D conditions of seeming isolation in one time-space moment at a time. An illusion of separation is a part of that isolation. It functions as it is supposed to function.

However – and if you are reading this, you almost definitely know this from personal experience – this illusion of separation, of isolation, may be overcome by a realization of a deeper unbreakable connection, and that realization will certainly change your experience of 3D. The same conditions that provided a painful isolation now support a very different situation, in which physical confinement to one time-space moment may be connected to mental awareness of connection, to provide the best of both worlds.

You understand? At one level of consciousness, the phrase “All is one” will be seen to contradict everyday experience. How can all be one when conflict and cross-purposes and painful isolation are so evident? But then you achieve a higher or deeper awareness, and you see, you experience, that in fact both halves of the seeming contradiction are one.

When that occurs, you perhaps restate the situation in your mind as “Life is all one thing in its origins and in its non-3D manifestation, and it appears in 3D as separated elements because of 3D conditions.” Later perhaps you restate it more concisely. “Diversity in unity,” perhaps, or “Unity disguised by an appearance of multiplicity.” Any rephrasing is going to distort the fundamental understanding, because selection in 3D always does that. Sequential exposition – which is what language is, after all – cannot present all aspects at once, and even if it is able to list every single attribute of a situation, it cannot help but imply a hierarchy of importance even by the order in which things are listed, or by the length at which various things are discussed. With this in mind, you see the value of holding an image, or a feeling or a memory, so as to preserve your connection to the reality behind such statements as “All is one” or “All is well.”

We are tempted to digress, and perhaps it is as well to make note: The saying “All is well, all is always well” is so contrary to everyday experience in 3D that it can only be accepted provisionally (that is, on faith that it will prove true), or recast as a pious wish, or denied outright. If your being assents to it, it does so not on logical grounds, nor exactly in defiance of logic, but because something within you recognizes the truth of it. Of course, that may be said of anything we say, but it is particularly true for statements that seem to contradict experience so flatly.

How is everything always well? Phrase your understanding and we will assent or dissent or modify.

I’d say that the 3D can never be understood as a unity by logic based in sensory experience. Judging it by how it appears, we see joy and we see suffering, but we do not see an underlying unity, just as when we look at a family or any group from a 3D level, we see diversity and conflict and cooperation, but never unity. It is only as we look at life from a non-3D perspective that we see that the diversity proceeds from the fact that our consciousness of underlying unity is split by 3D conditions chopping life into time-slices and space-slices. This being so, it is clear that the appearance of diversity has to be rooted in one non-divisible underlying unity that we can mentally see but cannot physically experience.

Yes, that is a good summary. Your senses report on the world at any one time-space moment; your intuitions report on the underlying unity of time, and of space, and of life.

How could something that is one thing be self-contradictory? How could it be random? How could it be chaos, or divided into opposites such as good and evil, knowledge and ignorance, etc.? It may easily, almost inevitably, seem that way, when perceived at the level of consciousness that 3D conditions encourage, but beneath this appearance is the reality, and your deeper selves, your higher selves, will show you that, once you quiet your 3D logic and its insistence on presenting evidence of diversity.

So to return to the main point, not yet quite made: Your mental/physical outlook determines the nature of the world you live in. this does not – could not – depend upon the action or inaction of anyone else. It doesn’t and couldn’t depend upon political or economic or societal events of any kind. (Well, in one sense it may be said to depend upon physical externals, but only in one sense. To the degree that anyone allows external evidence – “the news” or ideology or religion or scientism – to shape their understanding, then yes, it could be said that only certain conditions allow people to get to the point where they can see the underlying reality, because it will keep them from doing the meditation or yoga or prayer or whatever that will quiet the sequential chatter and allow the deeper wisdom to emerge. But even this caveat depends upon sequential logic, you see. It assumes a lack of coherence in the interaction between the individual and its external circumstances.)

Do you really think that most people are precluded from achieving such contact until the world is at peace, or everybody learns to think alike, or all the stoplights across America turn green at the same moment? Such – slightly exaggerated here for emphasis – is 3D logic, saying, “This is how the real world is, as opposed to your pleasant fairy tale of unity and all being well.”

But if the life you experience may change as a result of a change within you – a decision to concentrate on the perception of underlying unity, rather than the appearance of chaotic diversity – what a hopeful fact! It is within your ability to choose how to see the world, how to see life. Your choice, no one else’s. Your choice, and it is not dependent upon wars and rumors or wars, nor upon the next election for city council. Your choice, and it need not wait for supportive others, and need not first clear out non-supportive others.

Could there be a more promising situation than to know that the life you live rests upon your own decisions, your own efforts? Jesus didn’t say, “I have come that you may have life more abundantly, once we’ve cleared the Romans out of here.” He said, “The poor you have always with you,” meaning not that this is a good thing, but in effect saying, “Don’t wait until social conditions are perfect (in your opinion); work on yourself now.” Or perhaps we should say more carefully, not “work on yourself” (which implies a long process) but “Decide now to be what you want to be.” This does not rest on results, but on your acquiring a surer basis to life.

Now, this is enough for today, and because it makes it easier for you to begin again, we’ll say that next time we may (or may not) begin with the effects on your lives of the fact that you are composed of strands – other Ives – which continue to live as you are living, even though from your vantage-point they are not in the living “present moment.”

This is wonderful material, and we are grateful for it. I am, particularly, given that I had thought we were done.