This may be of interest, from our friends Upstairs. I think it’s self-explanatory, except for their coinage of the terms person-group and social-group. That’s part of an on-going explanation of the ways in which we as individuals aren’t nearly as individual as we think we are.
The guys had said that condemnation is not the proper response to what has happened, as condemnation merely isolates the person doing the condemning, and one of my friends had challenged that.