Monday, May 5, 2025
7:10 a.m. Anything, this morning?
A friend once noted that “You don’t call them anything,” referring to your lack of salutation often enough when beginning a session. That may be worth a word or two. You know the reason, though you are not always aware of it.
I suppose it is because I never liked ritualized “necessities” that I never believed were necessary.
Now, that is a short statement, and a short subject, but it has instructive nuances.
We’re all ears.
The simplest part is, indeed, that you resist ritual that may devolve into superstition.
Then, you continually stress that the process is too simple and straightforward to require much attention, let alone a careful preparation.
Then, you wouldn’t know whom to address! In special cases, yes: Carl Jung; one of your lives; one of your [dead] friends; anyone you might be drawn to in particular at a particular time. But in general, saying, “Hey guys, what’s up?” doesn’t seem to require a devoted routine.
Mostly, though, it is simply this: As you experience this, it is a matter of you turning your attention to a certain way of being, and there you are. Any written acknowledgement would seem not only unneeded but perhaps theatrical.
“A certain way of being….”
Yes, this is what we want to bring to the fore. Perhaps it will not take long, perhaps it will.
“We’ll see,” I know. A very familiar phrase.
And nothing wrong with it. It is a way of acknowledging that you are willing to be not in charge, to be merely a partner, not the boss. Same on our end, though that may not have occurred to you.
So what do we mean by “a way of being”? what are we contrasting it to?
I’d say, taking it for granted as a state of mind that can be chosen, as opposed to something requiring effort or technique.
Let’s spell that out a little. If you look at your lives, you have periods of sleep, of alertness, or daydreaming, of concentration, etc. These are all normal fluctuations of consciousness, each with its own advantages and drawbacks. We merely point out that a state of active receptivity is one possible state of being, like any of these. it isn’t unique, isn’t limited to a gifted few, isn’t accessible only by particular efforts or practice or secret knowledge.
As you said, simple and not requiring much exposition.
Some things are so simple as to be taken for granted, which may render them invisible. In such cases, it is sufficient to point them out, and the cloak of invisibility turns out to be (or rather, is finally seen to be) inattention, as much as anything else.
So the take-away is that you used someone’s once mentioning that I don’t have a formal way to address you (or others) as a way to remind people that it is easier done than said, as I sometimes put it.
Opportunism on our part. and if you wish only a short session, this would provide it.
If I wished more?
You could think how this provided companionship, and how it could offer that to others.
Hmm. I live alone, by choice and by circumstance. But “alone” and “lonely” are not the same thing. I imagine that if not for my taken-for-granted connection to you – to my own non-3D component, I suppose – I would feel quite lonely often, rather than from time to time.
Surely it is obvious – or perhaps it is not obvious, come to think of it; it would depend upon the person – but we were about to say it should be obvious that everyone is in the same position, no matter if they live alone or live among others. The 3D experience is such that it nearly forces you to feel alone sometimes. Those who are most at home with living alone may feel this loneliness-of-being less than those who live among others, because for the latter the realization can be a shock, or an undermining.
I think you’d better say more on that. I don’t know that it is obvious if people aren’t getting it essence-to-essence as I am.
Living in 3D is a matter of attention. You build your own picture of the world, using your predilections, your second-hand perceptions (ideas from books or conversations or video, etc.), your conclusions as you review your life to date, and many other inputs. If the picture you build includes easy communication with the unseen world, you live in a world very different from those who live assuming that the 3D is all there is, or live thinking the non-3D may exist, but is not to be communicated with, or can be communicated with only by means of others or by means of a given ritual.
Different worlds, different rules, different possibilities. Well, if you take the 3D world to be all there is (asterisk here: other than the mysterious world “inside your head”), you may find that communication with other 3D souls is insufficient, and you are lonely without any idea how to overcome the loneliness.
I think I saw that between the lines in many a John D. MacDonald novel. It rose sometimes almost to the level of despair, but even at its calmest was a sort of resignation.
You needn’t confine yourself to MacDonald, of course. Think of Hemingway, or Fitzgerald. It isn’t that these writers were experiencing something uncommon, it is that they were uncommonly good at expressing it even as they lived it.
Hemingway was a good Catholic, a convert and therefore, as they say, more Catholic than the Pope, even though he didn’t pay much attention to the rules other than when he was married to Pauline, who was a conventional Catholic. He seems to have taken the “spiritual” world for granted, unlike Fitzgerald, say, or MacDonald. Of course, one source of his greatness is hat he took the physical world equally for granted. Unlike many, he was fully at home in both. How I wish he could have had the chance to consider life in the framework you, or Seth, say, offer. But his mother’s conventional piety stood between him and such a stance even if he had heard of you, I suppose. His mother asked about him in a question to Edgar Cayce during the Second World War. What would Hemingway have said if he had known? It wouldn’t have been complimentary, and it wouldn’t have reflected well on Cayce in his mind.
You can see the difficulty Hemingway had in the conflict between his religious instincts and his intellectual assumptions. Like so many, he was forced to believe in one part of his mind, disbelieve in another part. He lived that tension, but didn’t have a way to obtain a composure that might have been his if he had had a way to form what you might call an intellectually respectable form of faith that would have allowed him full access to both compartments of his mind without having to suspend part of his knowing in order to accommodate another part.
But the point here is that for people who do not experience a continuous non-3D presence as part of what they are, their only connection will seem to them to be other people (or some substitute like scholarship or artistry of some sort). Failing that – or, let’s say, when that fails them – they feel alone, and often enough feel despair. Some bear this valiantly; still, it is despair.
Why wouldn’t their non-3D component remind them that it is otherwise?
Do you always listen? Did you always listen? Did you even know that some of your deepest certainties were anything more than something you “made up”?
Touche. Well, thanks for this. Our p.s. is longer than the original letter, and I am glad of it. We’ll call it –?
Perhaps something like, “Accompaniment.”
Okay. Many thanks for many things.