[Suth Shilling, in dialogue with those she calls the Mentors]
On Loving Others
June 6, 2024
[I asked the Mentors for help with some negative feelings I was having about people who worked for me.]
M: What/how would you like it to be?
R: I am the gracious and generous boss who is open to what they have to say and express.
M: Is this what you really want?
R: It’s the best I can think of now. Do you have other suggestions?
M: When would you like to hear those?
R: Now, please.
M: OK. Open your heart wider. How does it feel to love these people?
R: Actually, I don’t think I do.
M: Try more.
R: OK……. I still don’t feel it. Can you help me?
M: You are trying too hard. Relax. Love is what you are, remember?
R: OK. That’s better. So I am focusing inside myself instead of on them.
Focusing on them [trying to think of things I liked about them or positive qualities they have] was trying to manipulate myself into having a loving reaction. Instead, if I focus inside myself and feel my own essence, I “lock in” there and then look outward to others while holding that awareness. It’s putting the horse before the cart. The other version was cart-before-the-horse. Two options: “I am love; this is what I see,”[inside out], instead of “I hope they will illicit feelings of love in me.” [outside in]
Thank you so much. This is a whole different approach. I hope I will remember this. It’s a whole different ballgame that way. Anything else about this now?
M: No. That’s it.
R: Is there more to share with me here today?
M: Let’s leave it for now. This is profound.
R: Thank you again.
Manifestation
6 June 2024
M: We are pleased to join you here today and also commune with you for this new project… [sending out an email about the upcoming Egypt tours]. You have done a marvelous job with the preparations and we commend you for that. There are suggestions we can add here which we believe can be of the greatest benefit to you and those who will be joining you. We realize there can be a modicum of worry about this – “will this be another of those disappointments, financial losses…?” and such thought-forms.
We are ever with you and you are embraced by us, and many others as well. What we suggest here today is a funneling of both your energies and focus in such a way that the outcomes you desire with be most likely to manifest in your world, your reality. You begin with good intentions, but these get sullied by past fears and unpleasant circumstances for you.
You can and cannot do these alone. We suggest an assistance from the “manifesters of old.” Both those with whom you have conscious memories and those whom you no longer grok or carry in your awareness. There will always be those who jump in to assist you if you but lay out the carpet for them. They are there ever waiting to assist.
The benefits to you, therefore, are that working as a community effort relieves you of much of the tensions of the past, for this new modality is just that, NEW. And it therefore follows that the results will not resonate to past blunders or mishaps. This is new. This is a new way to accomplish that which you are desiring. We also point out here that you continue to be inspired by those who have similar agendas and desires.
R: The spirits of the place? [Egypt]
M: Exactly. Those who called upon you from the very beginning. So this is not you alone, this is not just your desired outcome. This is a group effort, a group project, and many, many would like to participate and have a role here. It is only for you to stipulate what is advantageous for you, what works for you, and there will be great efforts to please your majesty. [ha-ha] You are, after all, the one who has the allowance that all this can manifest and
appear here.
R: Like God’s hands and feet.
M: Exactly. This is exactly what we intend to impart here.
R: So to clear that thought-form that this is just my little project and only because I-alone want this. This is a larger desire, a shared desire of many – probably from a number of different angles and directions.
M: We are pleased. This is beginning to gel for you. You are but one cog in the wheel – an important one, for sure – but it is something much larger, much grander, that you are participating in here.
You love, they love, love itself is renewed – renewed and made manifest here. Here now.
R: Do I need to do anything before doing the mailing to the list?
M: No, you don’t. The mailing can go at any time.
R: How do you suggest I do that in a way that all the others in on this project can also have a vibrant, worthwhile role in the sending of this?
M: They do. They already do. But your inviting them with a heartfelt prayer or other welcoming sign/message is appreciated and always applauded, too.
R: So I make this a we action, not just me doing it.
M: As though this is even possible! But, yes, we jest. Yes, this is a very nice and welcome thing to do, dear one. We adore you endlessly.